Jane Hwang

Graduation to motherhood

TRIGGER WARNING: description of delivery and body parts if sensitive towards those types of words

Of course, I wanted to post this around the three week mark, but with the newborn, the timing wasn’t possible. And the delivery being a month ago now and my memory of the event slowly disappearing, really wished I had written about this sooner. but again – trying to survive while keeping a baby alive.

COMMON QUESTIONS:
How are you? How are you doing?
Surviving, lol. In all seriousness, we’ve been blessed with a chill baby (thus far) so just trying to keep up with his sleep schedule while trying to squeeze in some naps for ourselves.

How are you out walking already?!
Once I go into my delivery story, you’ll understand a bit more about how… But my recovery is fine. Probably should’ve stayed “in bed” for a bit more, but as a couple with no help with the baby, I have to do what I have to do. 🤷‍♀️

Are you sleeping?
Whats… sleep? 🫠

To be honest, I get annoyed when people keep telling me to sleep when it’s literally just my husband and I trying to maintain our home with a dog and a baby. So instead of suggesting to “sleep”, I will advocate for “take power naps”. Since I’m exclusively pumping, my sleep schedule can only be about 2-3 hours before my nipples get spidey senses (seriously, it knows it’s time to pump), I would say try to get as many power naps as you can! The best power naps I’m able to get in are when I do skin-to-skin with my baby, and he also has the best sleep too since he’s a newborn and we regulate off of each other (temperature, heartbeat, etc). Also, have a routine/schedule with your partner to help each other.

STORYTIME

To the point: I had to get induced.
Due to my gestational diabetes, the medical team believed it was best for me to get induced due to my “severe” case of high blood sugar and just the overall growth/health of the baby.

So, 24 hours before my induction, I had met with my midwife who did a cervix exam to see how much I was dilated. She had felt that I was 2cm and asked if I would be alright with a membrane sweep to help induce labor. For me, she was already down in the area so I said “Go for it”.

NOTE: You have the right to say “no”. Make sure you do your own research on the benefits and/or risks of membrane sweeps and see if it’s something you’re willing to receive yourself.

Moving on to the next day – the day of my induction, my primary midwife had decided it’d be best to start me on Pitocin. Pitocin is a synthetic version of oxytocin, which is a hormone that your body produces to induce contraction.

The reason for Pitocin was due to my exam 24 hours prior, they thought it was the best step to move forward with (it was not). After 12 long and grueling hours of being on Pitocin and having no effect on me, the team decided to move me to misoprostol, which is also another method to help induce labor… honestly, I wish my midwife had checked in with me first, and check how my cervix was doing and suggested the misoprostol rather than assuming things and have me on pitocin 😒

Some time in between the pitocin and misoprostol, I did take the time to do some stretching and move around only because my fetal station was still in the positive +3/+2 range (meaning baby was still high up in my pelvis rather than descending down.) Highly recommend walking, side lunges, and the yoga ball when and if you can move around.

Once I took the misoprostol, I remember it working pretty quickly. I started feeling contractions, which felt like period cramps to me, and was excited to know that I’d be that much closer to meeting our little boy! Again, while having minor pain from the contraction, I was still moving to help the baby descend down the pelvis. The best way to move? Hyphy movement music 😂 Coming from the Bay Area, this was quite funny and also very relevant to encourage baby to move down the pelvis LOL.

After the Pitocin + misoprostol, and only 3 – 4 cm dilated now, the medical team decided to break my water for me and have me go back on Pitocin to help the uterus contract. The best way to describe my water breaking would be… a balloon popping and relief in my abs… with a smell of menstrual blood 😂 I will note, it’s amazing to know how much pressure is built up in the placenta and for your body to carry all of that for 9 months. Going back – with all the possible ways to get me into labor, I really started to feel these contractions.

For my initial pain management, I decided to go with nitrous oxide, which is a laughing gas. I don’t know if I was using the equipment correctly or if my contractions were just that much more noticeable, but I don’t think it was working as much for me haha. I just remember my husband saying “Don’t try to be brave, if you need the epidural, get it now!” But of course, being stubborn, I was like “NOT YET! I’m ok!” ….I was not ok. Haha.

After a few good minutes (I really don’t remember how long I was on the gas) I decided to switch to the epidural. Ladies… yes… get the epidural 😂

With the epidural, you WILL feel the pressure. The epidural was great to not feel the pain at all. Once that needle was in there and released its goodness into my body, I stopped feeling the pain from the contraction, BUT I definitely felt the pressure of the contractions.

How does it feel? Legit – feels like poop is RIGHT by your butthole and you really need to push it out (an intense turtle necking?).

As the epidural kicked in and I started feeling the pressure, I was dilating quickly and the baby was descending even quicker, so the medical team was getting ready to deliver my baby.

I did mention to the delivery team that I wanted to be on my side when delivering rather than be on my back as I didn’t want to put more pressure on my already bad back and also wanted to limit my possibility of tearing down there while pushing. What’s great about my hospital is they placed a warm towel down around my vagina (also known as a warm perineal compress) to relieve pressure but also to help prevent tearing (which you can request on your birth preferences). Honestly – with the pressure of the baby coming down and just not feeling comfortable, those warm perineal compression was the best feeling EVER. I even remember saying “OH YEAH!!” because it felt so nice.

And with all that excitement of contractions, intense turtle necking, and a glorious 18 minutes of pushing… our son was born. With no tears. ✌️

How is that possible for a first-time mom? I really don’t know 😂
A part of me wants to credit the pre-labor steps I took to make sure my cervix was soft enough for an easy delivery; like eating fresh pineapple and drinking raspberry leaf tea (dates if you’re non-diabetic). And getting monthly adjustments from my chiropractor and working with my physical therapist focusing on mobility and breathing.

But the biggest credit I would give for my easy delivery would be the midwife, who was on call on the day of my delivery. I think without her and her urgency, things could’ve been much longer and more painful, but she was so good at walking me through how to push, and just guiding the baby out safely. Also just props to the whole medical/nursing team!

All in all, my delivery was smooth and easy. I had my supportive husband, who honestly did so much to make sure I was comfortable and relaxed; I had my mom there throughout the whole process too, and to have her just being there really was a blessing. The team at my hospital was AMAZING – literally, all the staff that I interacted with were truly saints. They do God’s work for sure! And lastly, everyone who knew that we were having a baby – sending us good vibes and prayers… I really believe y’all let us have such an easy and smooth delivery!

Would I do it again? Absolutely! Haha – as long as it’s this easy again haha.

Last words/advice?
Mamas – go in with an open mind.
I know everyone has their birth plan/preference, but allow your body to be in control and be an advocate for what your body needs. Don’t be afraid to take the medical’s team suggestion, but ask a lot of questions especially if you don’t know what they’re doing/what is happening.

Also – have fun! Especially for first-time mamas, it’s an experience. Of course, anxiety will be present as you want everything to go right, but focus on the now – enjoy the time you have with just your partner before everything starts to change. Positive vibes only 🤩

Welp – that was a long one! If you made it this far – thanks for reading this whole thing! Hope y’all learned something from this post, but also hope you were just entertained by how real I was about my labor and delivery. 😅 As always – appreciate you all!

United Premium Plus: Worth It?

Hello blog world!
Long time no write.

Again, only coming back after a major trip; why? Because my life is not as exciting as it seems 😂

I am, however, excited to write about this experience, just because when I was researching this, I wasn’t too sure if it was worth it or not.

Back story: my mother and I had to go to South Korea for about a week (family-related stuff). It’s been about 10 years since we both went back to Korea so we were looking for flights that would be efficient on time, comfortable, and affordable from SFO. The choices we had were Asiana, Korean Air, or United. The price difference was about $200 – $400 (we were going during thanksgiving weekend, so understandable why the price would be so high). Just based on the time we had and how long those flights are, we decided to go with United. First purchasing the economy seats all the way in the back.

After a couple months and COVID on my mind, I was looking at our seat plan for our aircraft and noticed something called “Premium Plus”. To upgrade to these more spacious seats, the cost was an additional $200. For myself, I was thinking “that’s not too bad” – but what else is there?

I watched a couple of YouTube videos and read a few articles about why it would be worth it but those were about flights that were less than 8 hours. While SFO > ICN is about 12-hours, and for someone that’s 5’8, I really had to think: would it be really worth it? After a couple more weeks of contemplating, jumped the gun and upgraded my mom’s and my seats to Premium Plus.

So, was it worth it?

As I mentioned, I’m 5’8. Economy seats are super cramped, and honestly, with that many people traveling during the holidays, people get impatience and rude at some point (especially when flights are 12 hours). So, to walk onto the plane where the seats are 38” long was amazing for my long legs.

Also, the row layout for Premium Plus is 2x3x2, meaning two seats on the sides and three seats in the middle. If traveling with a +1, it’s a perfect way to have some privacy/intimacy by sitting next to just them than having someone next to you on a 3x3x3 seat plan in economy. Being COVID-conscious too, it was nice to just be next to my mom rather than being surrounded by a bunch of people.

So, the highlights so far: more space, fewer people. What about the inflight experience?

As we walked towards our seats, we were greeted with a blanket and pillow set from Saks Fifth, which was comfortable. We were also provided with noise-reducing headphones, which were pretty fitting to enjoy with our 13″ screen for entertainment.

It didn’t hit me until later in the flight that Premium Plus felt very similar to a business class experience (minus the lie-flat seats and a couple thousand dollars). I say this because we had the flight attendants taking orders of our meals, then being served those meals with flatware and cloth napkins, as well as complimentary alcoholic beverages. Food – not bad, but I definitely missed the Korean meals you’d be able to get on Asiana/Korean Air.

Other experience I couldn’t tell you much as I went to sleep quickly after my meal. However, I can point out that our seats did recline back more than the standard economy seats, (supposedly 6″ of recline) and you also have a leg/foot rest that allows you to sleep in a more comfortable position than a cramped position like in economy.

So, to answer the question: in a 10+ hour international trip where one is traveling and wants to splurge, but is on a budget and wants comfort, upgrading to United Premium Plus: WORTH IT.

PS, not going to lie – felt like a peasant, and was amazing how United’s new aircraft was so high-tech. My mom and I were so amused with all the little things the plane provided. But it was a fun memory we both shared and I’m glad to have gone to Korea with her during this time.

PSS, not sponsored 😂 Just wanted to write about my experience to help those who are interested in learning and knowing about United Premium Plus.

Maui 2022

Hello there!
Happy 2022 and happy lunar new year!

As always, you know something happened if I’m writing a blog entry; whether it’s a new recipe or travel. This time, it’s not a recipe. 😂

I wanted to share some amazing experiences I had at Maui! My husband booked this trip for the beginning of January to start the year refreshed. But unfortunately, our dog got badly injured, so we had to postpone it to February. Honestly, it was the perfect timing as we were both getting burnt out from work and we just needed to unplug and rest – focus on ourselves.

We didn’t want to do too much as we wanted to enjoy the island itself. The activities and restaurants we went to were just the right amounts. And by the end of the trip, we (or more so, me) were ready to go home and cuddle our fur baby and just get some Asian soups inside our stomach.

If you want to see the list, here is my Yelp list here

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Lodging: Camp Olowalu

If you want to try something new outside of the usual hotel resort and Airbnbs in Maui, and don’t mind the outdoor; highly recommend glamping @ Camp Olowalu. We chose the Tentalow, which comes with a private, open-air shower and sink, and two twin beds that are easy to move around to make into a “queen”. What I loved about our tentalow was showering under the stars or watching the sun rise while bathing in hot water.

Tours

O’o Farm Lunch Tour

O’o Farm is located in the upcountry of Kula and provides quality local produce to Maui restaurants like Pacific’O. They provide breakfast tours and lunch tours, which include a tour around the farm and a gourmet meal prepped from the farm itself to provide the “farm to table” experience. When we went, we had a five-course meal: focaccia, salad, tofu and veggie dish, fresh catch with veggies, pan-seared chicken, and a dessert. You can watch a quick highlight from the Instagram Reels I created after going there.

Gemini Snorkel Sailing

We discovered Gemini Sailing while driving by Honolua Bay, as we heard the snorkel at this specific beach is amazing. We signed up for a sail on our last full day and the whole experience was amazing! We meet and board the boat on the beach of Kaanapali Beach. From there, we take a 45-minute sail to Honolua Bay, with a few pauses here and there to watch the whales pass by. What’s amazing about the Honolua bay is that it is part of the Marina Life Conservation distracted, which means it is protected by the state and the wildlife in that specific area is just alive and well kept. Out of all the areas we snorkeled in Hawaii (it’s not a lot, but what we’ve experienced so far), we truly loved this bay due to the variety of fishes you see and swim with; the number of turtles that are curious about you more than you are about them, and the clear blue waters.

After you explore the waters, Gemini provides a hot lunch buffet, which includes BBQ chicken, Kalua Pork, and other assorted food items, and an open bar and other beverages. There’s also a professional photographer on board, so if you forgot your camera or your GoPro died (like us), they were there to capture moments before, during, and after, which was so helpful to us!

Overall, Gemini really put the cherry on top for us on our trip. We also spoke with a couple that’s been coming to Maui for many years and every year they come, they sail with Gemini (I think they said it’s been 25+ years?). They were #couplegoals for sure!

Food

As I mentioned early, I listed all the restaurants and activities we did on my Yelp page, which you can look HERE. But I wanted to highlight a food truck we went to, pretty much… every day 😂

Thai Mee Up – Ahi Rice Plate and Pad See Ew

There is a parking lot of food trucks across from Costco in Kahului and this specific food truck is called Thai Mee Up. Their price is really cheap (compare to some other Thai restaurants we went to) to the amount of food they give you. What I loved about them is they give you samples to try and each time, the quality of the food was delicious. The first time we went we got the Panang Curry ($10) and Pad Thai ($11). What I liked about their pad thai was their noodle wasn’t overcooked where it felt like mush, and it wasn’t dry where it felt like it was just left out for a while. Their noodles were the true definition of “al dente” in a good, well thought out and cooked pad thai. The second time we went, we go the pad see ew ($12) and Ahi plate ($14). Again, both dishes are cooked to quality and great taste. But also, don’t take my word for it – give it a try yourself!

All in all, it was a much-needed few days on the island that I’m super grateful my husband booked for us. It was a great way to celebrate my birthday and a new year, and to feel refreshed to tackle work!

Hope this helps you explore a few places in Maui. Remember – be kind, love, and be happy. Aloha 🤙

Korean Spicy Chicken Stew (닭도리탕)

Hello from the end of 2021 😂
I’m terrible at being consistent on this and I do apologize. Well, not really?
Not really since 2020-2021 has been such a strange year! And literally my life has been the same hustle and grind. If you follow me on Instagram, you’ll know that my husband and I got a dog and he’s the best pup we can ask for; especially with our busy schedule. But other than that, everything has been the same 🙃

But enough of my life update. The main reason I’m back is to share another recipe that I love making and eating, especially during these cold days. It’s called 닭도리탕 (dak – do – lee – tang), which is pretty much a spicy chicken stew. You can add clear noddles or rice cake, but we’re simple people and love having the extra broth to mix with our rice.

If you follow the instruction, it should be pretty straight forward. If not, let me know and I can help explain more! No photos as I was quick to make to feed my hungry self and husband. But maybe I’ll do a reel next time around. But here we go!

Ingredients:

Chicken
I used chicken thighs this time around, but you can use whatever part of chicken you like! Used two packs of the Kirkland Organic Chicken Thighs
Potatoes (used 3 golden potatoes)
Carrots (used 2 thick stalk)
1 Onion
Green onion (used about 3 stalk)
1 serrano pepper (optional)
Water
Milk

For Sauce:

10 spoon¹ of soy sauce
4 spoon of chili paste
3 spoon of sugar_²
2 spoon of chili flakes
1 spoon of mirin
1 spoon of grated garlic

COOKING TIME

Brine chicken in milk for 30 minutes.
Make sure you use enough milk to cover every piece of the chicken. This step is tenderizing the meat.
During this time, create your sauce by combining the sauce ingredients together.
NOTE:
1. The spoon size I’m using is this wooden spoon I got from Amazon and has been my go to when making Korean food. If you don’t have a wooden spoon, your silver cereal spoon works too 😂
2. Whenever I make Korean food, I rarely use granulated sugar. I like using plum extract (매실청) instead. So sweetness could be different here. Taste the sauce and adjust to your liking.
Two options here:
1. Rinse the chicken from the brine and boil. The impurities will rise up, so as that comes through, spoon it out and continue the recipe
2. After the brine, transfer the chicken to a pot and bring to a boil. Once chicken is cooked through, strain the chicken and rinse in cold water. This is just making sure your chicken is clean from impurities.
  
  I was in a rush, so chose option 1. Rinse the chicken from its milk brine and transfer the chicken into the pot with enough water covering the chicken (about 2~3 cups), add 3 spoons of granulated sugar to the water. I know, I used granulated sugar 😏
  Cooking on high heat
Once water is boiling and impurities start to come out – spoon it out! Once you have cleared out the impurities, add potatoes
After about 5 mins, add the onion and carrots and continue to cook for about 5 minutes.
Add your sauce and lower your heat to medium-high. Continue to cook for about 20 minutes, covered.
NOTE: I was using a dutch oven, which doesn’t have vent, so I had the cover just cracked off to the side to allow steam to be released.
In the last 5 minutes of the 20, lower your heat to medium-low and add green onion. You can also add serrano pepper if you want an extra kick.
After 20 minutes, give it a taste and serve!

Guess who’s back?

Hi 🙃
How are you?
It’s been a while, yeah?

Can’t believe the last time I wrote anything was over a year ago, and that’s when we were all free to travel without (some) care in the world! I hope all of you are staying safe and healthy during these times of events 🙏

So, what brought me back? A couple of things: wanted to start writing again and sharing any food recipes or food recommendations… most likely the longer food recipes, since eating out is a bit limited. I think last time I wrote in this blog, I didn’t have this specific Instagram account created, but I started a food Instagram! Mainly for recipes and food pictures of dishes I made. With that being said, I got a high request for this recipe, so let me go ahead and start sharing it! 🙂

Korean Braised Short Ribs
I feel like this dish is pretty easy to make. However, I can see why people think it’s an inconvenience as there are some steps that require a long wait time. But isn’t that the same as baking a loaf of bread? … if any of you started baking bread during the shelter in place 😂

Ingredients:

Short ribs (I used about 3lbs)
Potato (two Yukon Gold potatoes)
Carrots (My husband and I love carrots, so I used about four)
1 cup of soy sauce
1 cup water
1/2 cup cooking wine
1/2 cup sugar¹
2 big spoon² of sesame oil
two big spoon of grated garlic
1/2 spoon of grated ginger
chopped green onions (about two stock of green onion)

Here we go

In a large bowl, place your short ribs in the bowl and cover in a bath of cold water for about an hour to 1.5 hours. This will drain out the blood from the meat/bones

After 1-1.5 hours, pour out the blood water and rinse before transferring the short ribs into a pot. Fill the pot with water (enough water to cover the meat) and bring the water to a boil. We’re blanching our meat here
I like to add a couple or cinnamon sticks + bay leafs to the water as well to flavor the meat.
After the water comes to a boil (I keep it going for about 20-25 mins), pour out the water and the meat into a strainer and rinse away any extra impurities and set aside

Cut potatoes and carrots into large chunks and set aside.

In a large mixing bowl, combine the following together: 1 cup of soy sauce; 1 cup water; 1/2 cup cooking wine; 1/2 cup sugar¹; 2 big spoon² of sesame oil; two big spoons of grated garlic; 1/2 spoon of grated ginger, and chopped green onions.
Once sauce has been created, add your meat back into the sauce bowl and coat the meat with the sauce. We’re going to transfer both the meat+sauce into a pot, so don’t have to worry too much about getting the meat coated in the sauce.
After a light coat, transfer the meat+sauce into a pot and bring to boil on high heat. As you see your sauce boiling, add in your carrots and potato, reduce heat to low-medium, cover and let it simmer (I did about 20-25 mins again).
Once your veggies are cooked, and your rice is set. Serve and enjoy!

NOTE:

Instead of sugar, I like to blend together 1/2 an apple/Asian pear (depends what’s in season), 1/4 onion, and garlic together and massage that mixture with the meat to make the meat more tender. If the sauce isn’t at a sweet/tangy taste for you, feel free to add a little bit of honey or sugar. Whatever is easier
Koreans tend to have a “go to” spoon they use, which could be found at your local Korean Market, but my “big spoon” is our standard cereal spoon. 😂

I know some of you are visual learners (so I am), so I dug up some old photos to help. Maybe next time I make this again, I’ll record it for you! But, give this a try! Let me know how it turns out with a photo. If you have questions, feel free to reach out and happy to help!

As always – stay safe; stay healthy; be kind.

Cheers, Jane